
Recruiting · August 18, 2026
5 Reasons Players Struggle to Get Recruited
Tad Reida
Most high school players and their families who put a lot into this game want to play in college. That’s a good goal. It can set him up for more than baseball, too.
Over the last 15+ years, amateur baseball has turned into a big business. There are thousands of companies selling development, exposure, and “college recruiting.” A lot of what they put out is bad information.
The most confusion sits on the piece that actually matters if he wants to find a school: the recruiting process. Those companies need you to believe you can’t do this without them. I’m here to tell you that isn’t true.
1. The focus isn’t on the tools coaches actually look at. Too many young players spend their time on things that are not what college coaches use to start an evaluation. Schools look at arm strength, exit velocity, and running speed first. If he doesn’t have some version of those, more showcases will not fix it. Build the player. Recruiting is a lot simpler when there’s something real to recruit.
2. He isn’t training the right way. A lot of kids work hard and still don’t move the things coaches care about. If he throws 75 and wants 90, cleaning up mechanics will help a little. It will not get him there by itself. Don’t go into a workout just to get some swings in. Have a plan. A dad’s job isn’t to become the trainer. It’s to help him keep that plan simple and actually do it.
3. He (and you) don’t have an honest evaluation. Too many families build a school list that has nothing to do with the player they have today. Wanting D1 is fine. Pretending the current tools already belong there is how families get bitter. You can’t get where you want to go until you know where you are.
4. The family puts their trust in a recruiting service. Coaches want to hear from him. They want a feel for the kid — not a blast from a company. Your job as a dad is to help him write the email, then get out of the way. Guide. Don’t become his agent.
5. Academics get treated like they don’t count. Freshman and sophomore grades are the foundation. Coaches read transcripts as character and as a bet on eligibility. Start with places that fit him as a student. Then look at the baseball.
Finding the right school is stressful. Families make it harder than it has to be because they don’t know the process and they buy the wrong help. If you understand these five things, you can actually help him instead of adding noise.
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