
Relationship · August 20, 2026
The Hours in the Yard Were the Part That Lasted
Tad Reida
I spent 16 years at CageRat chasing velo, reps, and wins. I thought the work was the facility. The teams. The kids who threw harder in March than they did in September.
Looking back, that wasn’t the part that lasted. The hours between fathers and sons were.
A dad in the yard with a bucket. A car ride that wasn’t a lecture. A boy who still wanted to play catch on a Tuesday. That’s the inventory that actually compounds.
Most baseball advice is written for the player, the coach, or the showcase circuit. This is for the dad who is trying to help his son get better and stay close to him.
You do not need another program that adds volume. You need a foundational understanding of how development actually works, an honest picture of college recruiting, and a way to keep the game from coming between you.
If the game is starting to strain the relationship, that is a development problem too. We will treat it that way.
I have baseball sons of my own. My oldest is 11. I’m old enough to know how fast the next seven years will go — and how easy it is to get ahead of him.
The work now is this: help you stay on the same team. #dadsontime
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