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Recruiting · August 5, 2026

Character Is What Coaches Actually Buy

Tad Reida

Your character is how you are defined. Hard worker or shortcut guy. How teachers talk about him. How he treats the kid who isn’t starting.

Those are ALL questions college coaches try to answer when they start doing background. Unless he’s throwing 95, they want to know what kind of person he is.

There are dozens of kids in the country who throw like him and hit like him. When a coach is comparing two of them, he takes the one who will be an asset to the program — on the field and off it.

The worst thing for a staff is a liability. Trouble off the field. Drinking. Ineligible. A problem in the clubhouse. Immaturity is not an excuse. What he does in high school is usually a preview of what he’ll do at 19.

Treat everything like a coach is watching, because you never know who is. Work in school. Watch the language. Watch who he hangs around. His name is really the only thing he has. Protect it.

You can’t fake this with a highlight tape. You can live it in the car, in the classroom, and on a Tuesday when nobody important is there.

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